Unfortunately some work environments are just awful in general, I’m so happy to hear that you are willing to jump ship to find jobs where your voice will be heard and your expertise will be respected. Life is too short to remain in an awful work environment. I’m also the only breadwinner, it’s a lot of pressure. I’ve been a single mom for 13 years, so I also understand your feeling of exhaustion. I hope you’re able to land in a much better work environment that will enhance your life rather than sucking you dry.